1.1 The Gardener and the Carpenter

 

  • What element of your parenting practice do you want to change?
         More than something that is a direct part of the parenting, I'd like to change some               indirect elements such as:
    • How I react when to my partner's words / actions when our son is around
    • How organised I am with respect to space and time?
    • Do I follow a routine or not?     
    
  • What do you find too carpenter-like in your current practice?
        I wish that my son has some habits or some likes such as observing nature, learning about nature or that he is good with numbers when he grows up. I try to teach him names of birds or numbers which he seems to like at the moment and seems to learn rather well. However, I feel like I am guiding him toward a certain direction than him choosing that direction.
  • What steps will you take in changing your practice?
         Rather than changing it, I'd be more open to not making it a rigid practice and also allow him to discover his own talents and likes and provide him with tools and opportunities to pursue those. For example, early on he showed interest in stacking things up in a tower-like structure. We try provide him stuff that he can use to do it and do building activities with him.
  • What outcome, change do you expect in your child(ren)’s development?
         Above all, I'd be happy if my son grows up to be a curious life-long learner taking interest in very many subjects.

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